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If you’ve ever wondered why you can’t seem to get started on certain tasks, or why you can hyperfocus on others things for hours, you’re not alone. Living with ADHD means your brain is wired a little differently. That difference isn’t a flaw. It’s information. When you understand how your ADHD brain actually works, you can start to work  with  it instead of against it. Let’s explore what’s happening beneath the surface, especially when it comes to dopamine, motivation, and pr

Most of us have had moments where we look around and think,  “I'm feeling stuck in my life… but I don’t know how to change it.”  Maybe it feels like you’re repeating the same patterns, staying in old relationships, or watching your life instead of living it. You know something isn’t working, but no matter how hard you try, things don’t seem to shift. If that sounds familiar, you’re not alone and it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. Feeling stuck is a common human expe

“I’m doing okay on the surface, but I still feel empty, is therapy really for someone like me?” It’s a common question:  Do I really need therapy if my life looks fine from the outside? The truth is, therapy is for everyone. At OP Counselling, we work hard to break down the old stigma that therapy is only for people who are “broken” or “damaged.” That’s simply not true. Therapy is a safe space where you can explore parts of yourself that you might not usually look at. It’s le

Starting recovery can feel overwhelming. There are so many recovery and treatment options for addiction out there that it’s easy to wonder if you’ll ever find the right fit. I want you to know this: there isn’t one “perfect” way to heal from addiction. Recovery is personal, and you get to be in the driver’s seat. Together, we can look at what’s out there and figure out what makes sense for you right now, knowing you can always adjust as you grow. What Kind of Recovery and Tre

Many people worry,  “If addiction runs in my family, does that mean I’m doomed?”  That fear comes from a common misunderstanding: the  myth that addiction is genetic . The truth is far more hopeful: while biology plays a part, your future is shaped even more by support, coping skills, and environment. If Addiction is not genetic but runs in My Family, Am I Destined to Become Addicted? Absolutely not. Having relatives who’ve struggled doesn’t guarantee the same future for you.

When we talk about trauma, most people think of extreme or obvious events like war, accidents, or abuse. But trauma isn’t just about  what happened . Trauma is about  what happened inside of you  as a result of your experiences. That’s why two people can go through the same event and walk away with very different outcomes. If you’ve ever wondered whether your own story “counts” as trauma, or worried about how therapy might bring up painful memories, you’re not alone. Let’s ta

If homework, chores, or everyday tasks feel strangely hard to start (even when you care) you’re not alone. Many people describe knowing what they  should  do, but feeling unable to make their brain cooperate. Dopamine is often called the “feel-good chemical,” but it’s really about motivation, drive, focus, and reward. It helps your brain decide what’s worth the effort. When dopamine isn’t flowing in a steady or predictable way, tasks like homework or follow-through can feel o

Why ADHD and Addiction Recovery Can Be More Challenging The Role of Dopamine in Impulse Control If you’ve ever wondered why ADHD makes it harder to stay sober, you’re not alone. One of the core struggles with ADHD is impulse control. When your brain is wired for lower baseline levels of dopamine, the chemical that fuels motivation, focus, and reward, it can feel like you’re always chasing that next quick boost. For people without ADHD, dopamine naturally runs at a higher base

At Its Heart Recovery is Built On Connection Many people I meet tell me they’ve tried again and again to get sober or to find recovery, but no matter how hard they push themselves, it doesn’t last. The truth is, it’s not about gritting your teeth or powering through, recovery is built on connection. Addiction and mental health struggles often thrive in isolation. When you’re carrying shame and keeping your pain to yourself, it makes recovery so much harder. Healing begins whe

Let’s Start with Some Honesty: Addiction Is Not A Lack of Willpower If you’ve ever struggled with addiction, or loved someone who has, you’ve probably heard the phrase:  “addiction is just about willpower, if they really wanted to stop they would." It’s painful to hear, isn’t it? It makes it sound like the struggle is all about character flaws or laziness. And if you’ve ever told yourself that same story, it can leave you feeling stuck, ashamed, or hopeless. I want you to kno

When people ask me,  "What does it mean for therapy to be a safe space and why does that matter when I'm struggling with addiction?"  I can't help but smile, because it gets right to the heart of the work of healing the deeper wounds underneath their addiction. For many men I sit with, therapy is the first time they've ever had the chance to feel fully accepted as their authentic selves, no pressure to perform, no need to hide. Just space to be themselves. And that matters de

I hear this a lot:  "How do I know if it's really addiction?"  There isn't a single right answer, but what I can say is this-if you're asking the question, it probably means something about your use isn't sitting right with you anymore. That curiosity is a great entry point for therapy. The questions you're carrying matter. They're worth exploring without shame, judgment, or pressure. Below, I'll walk through some of the most common ones men bring into therapy, and together w

When life feels overwhelming, especially with addiction or ADHD, it’s important to have clear and practical tools to help you cope. These healthy coping strategies aren’t about perfection — they’re about small, manageable steps that can make a real difference over time. Here are five straightforward ways to help you build healthier coping skills, right now. 1. Ground Yourself with Mindful Breathing Take a moment to pause and focus on your breath. Try inhaling slowly for a cou